Retrogrades Explained: What They Are and What They Aren’t
Retrogrades often get a dramatic reputation in modern astrology, especially Mercury retrograde. If you’ve ever seen someone panic over missed emails, travel hiccups, or exes resurfacing, you’re already familiar with the myths and misunderstandings that surround this astrological phenomenon.
But retrogrades aren’t something to fear. In fact, they’re a powerful part of the cosmic rhythm—here to help us pause, reflect, and realign.
In this blog, we’ll break down what a retrograde actually is, how it works, what it means for your astrology chart, and how to work with (not against) retrograde energy.
What Is a Retrograde in Astrology?
In astronomy, a retrograde is an optical illusion. It happens when a planet appears to move backward in the sky from our view on Earth. It’s not actually reversing its orbit—just shifting its position relative to Earth.
In astrology, we interpret this backward motion as a time of reflection, internalization, and revision. Instead of moving forward with new plans and external action, retrogrades pull us inward. They call us to revisit what’s unfinished, unresolved, or out of alignment.
Each planet goes retrograde at different intervals and for different lengths of time, bringing its own themes and energetic invitations.
Common Misconceptions About Retrogrades
Let’s clear up a few myths:
Retrogrades are not inherently bad. They’re not curses, and they don’t mean everything in your life will go wrong.
You’re not doomed if you were born during a retrograde. Many people are born with Mercury or Venus retrograde in their natal charts—it just means you process those energies a little differently.
Not all retrogrades impact everyone the same way. Their influence depends on your personal birth chart.
When we shift from fear to curiosity, we can use retrogrades as valuable tools for healing and growth.
The Energetic Purpose of Retrogrades
Think of retrogrades as sacred pauses. They invite us to:
Reflect on the past
Reevaluate our choices
Rework patterns or plans
Release what no longer serves
They slow us down so we can make course corrections. Sometimes, retrogrades bring up old wounds or delays—but only so we can move forward with more awareness and alignment.
Mercury Retrograde: The Most Famous One
Retrograde frequency: 3–4 times per year, lasting about 3 weeks each
Themes: Communication, technology, travel, contracts, clarity
Mercury retrograde gets the most attention because it affects everyday life: emails, text messages, social media, transportation, and how we think and speak.
What to do during Mercury retrograde:
Back up your devices
Triple-check travel plans
Re-read contracts and communications
Reflect before you respond
What NOT to do:
Rush major decisions
Launch new projects without review
Avoid accountability or conversations
Mercury retrograde is a cosmic reminder to slow down and stay present.
Venus Retrograde: Love, Money, and Self-Worth
Retrograde frequency: Every 18 months, lasting about 40–43 days
Themes: Relationships, values, money, beauty, self-esteem
When Venus is retrograde, our hearts and desires go under review. It’s a time when old lovers may resurface (either physically or emotionally) and we question our values and worth.
What to explore:
What patterns keep showing up in love?
Do I feel worthy of the love and abundance I seek?
Am I in alignment with my values?
Avoid impulsive beauty treatments or major financial decisions during this time if possible.
Mars Retrograde: Drive and Desire on Pause
Retrograde frequency: Every 2 years, lasting about 2–2.5 months
Themes: Action, motivation, anger, assertion, energy levels
Mars retrograde slows down our momentum and challenges how we assert ourselves. If you feel tired, frustrated, or unclear about direction, you’re not alone.
What to reflect on:
Am I acting from alignment or impulse?
What triggers my anger or impatience?
Where am I misdirecting my energy?
Mars retrograde isn’t the best time to push or force. Rest, reassess, and reconnect with what you really want.
Jupiter Retrograde: Inner Expansion
Retrograde frequency: Once a year, lasting around 4 months
Themes: Beliefs, abundance, faith, personal growth, purpose
When Jupiter goes retrograde, we turn inward to reassess our goals, philosophies, and visions. This is a potent time for spiritual or personal development.
Jupiter retrograde asks:
What do I truly believe in?
Where am I placing blind faith?
Am I growing for the sake of growth, or from intention?
Saturn Retrograde: Karmic Lessons and Responsibility
Retrograde frequency: Once a year, lasting about 4–5 months
Themes: Boundaries, structure, discipline, time, long-term goals
Saturn retrograde brings up themes around responsibility, long-term plans, and karmic lessons. It may feel heavy or slow, but this is a powerful time to rebuild with integrity.
Reflect on:
What commitments are no longer sustainable?
Am I taking radical responsibility for my life?
What outdated structures need to be revised?
Uranus Retrograde: Inner Awakening
Retrograde frequency: Once a year, lasting about 5 months
Themes: Innovation, rebellion, change, authenticity, freedom
Uranus retrograde brings internal shifts that lead to external change. You may suddenly see your life or desires from a totally new angle.
This is a great time to:
Break free from limiting beliefs
Embrace your uniqueness
Reconnect with your inner rebel
Neptune Retrograde: Clearing the Fog
Retrograde frequency: Once a year, lasting about 5–6 months
Themes: Spirituality, illusion, dreams, imagination, escapism
Neptune retrograde clears the spiritual fog. Illusions are lifted, and what once felt magical may feel more raw. That’s not a bad thing—it’s an opportunity to get real about what’s true and what’s fantasy.
Questions to ask:
Am I seeing clearly, or idealizing?
How can I stay grounded in my spiritual path?
Where am I escaping instead of addressing?
Pluto Retrograde: Deep Transformation
Retrograde frequency: Once a year, lasting about 5–6 months
Themes: Power, control, death/rebirth, shadow work, healing
Pluto retrograde is a powerful time for deep inner work. It brings up buried fears, old traumas, and subconscious patterns so they can be seen and released.
Use this time to:
Dive into shadow work or therapy
Reclaim personal power
Transform from the inside out
How Retrogrades Affect Your Birth Chart
Not all retrogrades affect everyone equally. If a retrograding planet is touching your personal planets or angles (Ascendant, IC, Descendant, MC), you'll feel it more strongly.
Tip: Pull your birth chart and note where the retrograde planet is transiting. What house is it in? Is it aspecting anything important? That’s where your retrograde lessons are unfolding.
Final Thoughts: Working With Retrogrades
Retrogrades are not roadblocks—they’re redirections.
Instead of fearing these periods, embrace them as opportunities to slow down, reset, and come back into deeper alignment with your truth. The more you work with the energy instead of resisting it, the more gracefully you’ll move through the cycles.
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